Stop living the same chapter over & over
and find your way back to life.
Feeling stuck, bored, restless?
The ReKindled is a journey and a world created for personal growth and development using story-based frameworks and creative thinking tools to get you out of circling the same dead ends and help you find your way back to life.
It’s not another generic self-help program…
but an experience and world created for personal growth. A new way to understand and work on your life through the oldest proven method:
Story.
World-building is vital to a story because it creates an immersive environment and most importantly, context, making this work different from your more superficial methods, which you’re probably already disillusioned with.
We will walk with you through deep self-discovery through story patterns, character development through life themes, your personal character arcs, challenges and action, action, action.
Like any good ol’ story goes.
In the end, the character in a story is transformed because of the journey.
The character cannot skip the journey, it must be undertaken if they are to change.
But the character never does the journey alone.
How the Journey Works
Step 1: Get Your Story Assessment
Discover your current Story Pattern within the 15 patterns, and which of the Five Regions to start your journey in.
The quiz is free, but a personal one-on-one conversation (limited) option is also available.
Step 2: Enter Your Region
Enter your “Life Region” and join the community workspace and get personalized tools, frameworks, guide and peer support for your specific patterns and current life chapter.
Step 3: Do The Work & Live Your New Chapter
Breakthrough and transform into someone who creates change instead of just hoping for it.
The 15 Story Patterns
Not another personality quiz.
“Who You Are”
WHERE you are currently?
Your life has patterns.
The ReKindled Story Patterns reveal the hidden narrative shaping your current chapter. Wherever you find yourself right now is not permanent, a story keeps moving, the character keeps changing.
Each pattern describes a direction of movement.
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Some lift you upward into growth and transformation, others hold you in a liminal in-between, and a few warn of a downward spiral if nothing changes. By naming your pattern, you gain language for what’s happening, clarity on what’s next, and the tools to turn the page in your life.
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Here’s a few patterns you might recognize in your own life:
⇡ The Pilgrim: Claims & Callings⇡ - You’re discovering who you are becoming and claiming your voice.
|| The Dreamer: Dreaming & Dabbling || - You dream but don’t finish. You’re full of ideas, but little follow throughs.
⇣ The Cynic: Stagnation⇣ - You stay lost, consumed by regret, shame, or bitterness, afraid to hope again.
Your journey unfolds across five distinct landscapes of growth:
The Five Life Regions
This is not some fictional world, this is your real life.
We created an atlas and mapped out places to represent Meaning, Adventure, Transformation, Beauty, and Transcendence across five life themes and story arcs: Character, Challenges, Creation, Comebacks, Contribution. Each region has a distinct life theme and a dedicated community workspace.
The Wilderness of Meaning – Your Character & Identity
Discover who you’re becoming.
The Summits of Transformation – Your Challenges & Growth
Breakthrough challenges and build resilience.
The Range of Adventure – Your Creation & Craft
Turn visions into reality.
The Gulf of Beauty – Your Comeback
Find renewal and restoration.
The Realm of Transcendence – Your Contribution
Create lasting impact.
The Wilderness of Meaning
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The Range of Adventure
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Summits of Transformation
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The Gulf of Beauty
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The Realm of Transcendence
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The Wilderness of Meaning 〰️ The Range of Adventure 〰️ Summits of Transformation 〰️ The Gulf of Beauty 〰️ The Realm of Transcendence 〰️
Your Guide for the ReKindled Journey
Hi, I’m Tiara Menjivar.
I’m the creator of The ReKindled journey and method. I’ve traveled all over the world, learned and practiced storytelling through writing, video producing, directing, and editing for over a decade.
I’ve been obsessed with maps, adventures, fables, and archetypes ever since I was a kid, and creating a whole journey and adventure for self-improvement and personal growth that blends all this along with psychology and philosophy has turned out to be the greatest endeavor of my creative life.
With the films and videos I created, I’ve enjoyed getting people in their feels and making them cry, but nothing compares with seeing people find language for something they were struggling with, gather insight, and take that forward to really change their lives.
Where are you currently in your story?
I’ll meet you where you are and walk with you into your next chapter.
Take the assessment and choose what region to enter, or book a chat with me for a more personalized in depth discovery session (limited availability).
Preview:
Deeper into the Journey
Meet “The Inner Council”.
A good story explores a character’s backstory in order to understand motivations. You must learn about the character in the present and what they want in the future in order to know what needs to happen next in the story.
We created a concept called “The Inner Council”, seven groups of emotions, moods, shadows, aspirations, drives and needs who serve as your inner guides, scouts, re-con teams, council decision makers you must get to know and consult on your life’s journey.
The Emotional Council
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The Aspirational Council
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The Shadow Council
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The Needy Council
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The Moody Council
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The Performance Council
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The Spirited Council
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The Emotional Council 〰️ The Aspirational Council 〰️ The Shadow Council 〰️ The Needy Council 〰️ The Moody Council 〰️ The Performance Council 〰️ The Spirited Council 〰️
Character development and creative training in Community Workspaces.
Small steps, big shifts.
Community Workspaces are where we prepare you for the next chapter. This is a place of literal character development.
What you want is on the other side of some discipline, devotion, patience, and a change in thinking.
We’ve developed toolkits, navigational charts, field and survival guides that challenge your limited perspective and take your creative thinking skills, problem solving, and potential to the next level.
You think creativity is just for artists?
Think again.
Creativity is a survival skill, it’s for problem solving, a way you create yourself and your life, how you generate possibilities instead of waiting for someone to come rescue you.
You will come away more agile, resourceful, resilient, and ready to face the changes and uncharted territory of life with enhanced creative cognitive abilities to ReImagine, ReOrient, ReDiscover, ReFrame and much more.
ReKindle
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ReOrientation
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ReVision
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RePurpose
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ReInvention
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ReCreation
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ReIgnite
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ReImagine
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ReDiscover
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ReKindle 〰️ ReOrientation 〰️ ReVision 〰️ RePurpose 〰️ ReInvention 〰️ ReCreation 〰️ ReIgnite 〰️ ReImagine 〰️ ReDiscover 〰️
If nothing changes, nothing changes.
A good, engaging story keeps us asking, “What happens next?”
So if you feel trapped in the same day, the same story, the same patterns, the same emotional spirals, the same hopelessness and helplessness, living reactively instead of proactively creating possibilities…
you probably already know what happens next:
the same old thing.
But since you’re here, on this day, on this page, in this world:
What happens next?
You can keep drifting.
Or you can decide.
Power doesn’t hand itself over and possibility doesn’t create itself or show up uninvited.
We are ReKindling the power & possibilities you forgot you had
and you are ReClaiming responsibility for your life and who you are becoming.
In The Wizard of Oz each of the characters wants something specific: Dorothy wants to find a way back home, Scarecrow wants a brain, Tin Woodman desires a heart, and the Cowardly Lion wishes for courage. And they believe the Great Wizard of Oz is the only one who can grant their wishes.
Of course, it’s almost a cliché now, but in the end they figure out that they had the power and ability for whatever they wanted all along. But the only way they found this out was going on their journey, the adventure was the revelation.
We are like Dorothy inviting you to join us on the yellow brick road where, together, we will find whatever it is that you are looking for, and had the whole time.
You cannot skip the journey, so we might as well do it together.